Lindsay Teychenne is an old soul. He is gentle, kind and someone you feel like you’ve known forever. Conversations go deep quickly with Lindsay – which I love. He encompasses everything you imagine when you hear the word ‘pilgrim’.
I met Lindsay when I first moved to Tasmania in 2019. Wanting to meet ‘my people’, I created a group called “Tasmanians on the Camino”, a group which continues to meet every other month in Hobart. When I arrived at the first meeting, there was Lindsay, waiting, with a coffee in front of him. While Lindsay has moved on – literally! He’s moved to Spain! – he will always be an honorary member of our lovely little group.
If Lindsay’s name sounds familiar, it’s because he was also a founding member of “Camino For Good”, a ‘for profit’ public benefit corporation founded in Tennessee(United States) in 2020. Lindsay, along with the other original founders, worked with support albergues hit hard by COVID travel restrictions. Since inception, Camino For Good have helped 29 albergues with over $74,000 in donations, including Casa Susi. While the group continues to support pilgrims who dream of going to Spain, Lindsay’s work continues in other ways, including becoming a hospitalero.
Here is my interview with Lindsay. Enjoy!
When did you walk the Camino and which route did you walk?
I have now been to Spain three times, and walked different routes each time. So far I have walked the Camino Francés (twice), Camino Del Norte, Via de la Plata, most of the Primitivo and Finisterre-Muxia.
Did you walk solo or with someone else? Were they a friend or a relation?
Such a simple question that has a variety of answers. It seems I started walking by myself, yet with friends I made along the way. I would have to say I walked with friends.
When you initially started, what did you imagine the walk to be like?
The first time I walked I had absolutely no idea what to expect, I didn’t know what an albergue was or what it was going to be like.
Halfway through, what was your primary feeling about your walk?
I didn’t want it to end. It felt like THIS is what my whole life has been leading up to.
If you came across another Pilgrim what were the first two questions, you would ask them?
Where are you from? Why are you walking the Camino?
Lindsay living his best life on the Camino with his Via de la Plata family. With Weibke, Monica and Victor.
Did you do any training beforehand? If so, what did you do?
No walking training but I did drink coffee (LOL!).
What was the one thing you packed that you were glad to have with you?
My bumbag.
What was the one thing you packed that you could have left behind?
My jeans.
Would you walk a Camino again? If yes which route, would you walk and why? If no, why not?
Yes, probably the Via de la Plata again. It wasn’t crowded like reports from other walks. It is like the way people described walking the Frances back before “The Way” movie made it popular. Also, no-one (hospitality people) really speaks English which makes for an interesting social challenge.
Typical Pilgrim meal
Which was your favourite albergue and why?
That’s a tough one really. I suppose I really liked the municipals along the Via de la Plata. Partly because they were low cost, and partly because it was always a mystery as to what level of accommodation and facilities there were. I would arrive and check out what cooking and food storage facilities they had, then get creative about what and where I was going to eat and prepare for the next day.
11. If you’re open to sharing, what did you learn about yourself?
I learnt that I worry too much in advance about what may go wrong but that I always have the resources inside me to deal with whatever is thrown at me.
When you began you walk, what was your motivation to walk the Camino? Physical, spiritual, religious, or other? (This is a question that is asked when getting your Compostela in Santiago.) What about at the end of your walk?
Really I suppose it was to put myself in situations I had never been in, and see if I had what it takes to rise to the situation.
In the modern world, I equate spirituality to mental health. So I say spiritual meaning mental health, with a little bit of physical fitness thrown in.
13. Did you continue walking to Finisterre or Muxia?
I never really saw Finisterre being the end point. For me it was Santiago. Having said that, when someone invited me to walk with them to Finisterre Muxia, I jumped at the opportunity.
If you gave one piece of advice to someone thinking of walking the Camino, what would that be?
It’s funny, that would depend on their age. For someone of my years doing it for the first time, I would say ‘be prepared to come home changed’. I would really have no advice for a person under forty as I have no idea what the Camino would be like for them.
Do you feel the Camino changed you?
Yes, each one I do changes me.
How we all feel, walking the Camino.
How do you feel you brought the Camino home with you?
More tolerant of the foibles of others and more willing to take personal responsibility for everything that life throws at me.
Do you feel your Camino was a pilgrimage, or was it was more of a long-distance walk?
Interesting question. The more discussion I see about what being a pilgrim is (and by extrapolate what a pilgrimage is), the less I actually understand what it is. For me it feels more like a different way to live. I want to say it was a pilgrimage because the other choice is long distance walk but, like I said, I don’t really know what a pilgrimage is in an era when we arrive and leave by plane under a restrictive time frame.
Do you feel the Camino is for everyone? Why or why not?
The ability to walk the Camino implies one has the time, money and health (physical and mental) to undertake it. In essence then it is only those people that are able to bring those things together. So no, not for everyone. If you can get your priorities sorted for all those things yo come together then yes, it is for you. Only you can decide though.
Tara with two of her favourite pilgrims: Sue Swain and Lindsay Teychenne
What would you like to see more, or less (other than less toilet paper) of, on the Camino?
For me it is learning to accept everything as it comes. The more Caminos I do, the less I think needs to be any different to the way it is.
What was your favourite city on your Camino route, and why?
Salamanca because I had a great experience with my newly formed Camino family.
If someone didn’t know what the Camino was or about, what would you tell them (in three sentences or less)?
A walk across Spain where you will be challenged to change your world view and what you think and feel about humanity itself and your place within it.
I met Mark in early 2023 through the Tasmanian Indie Author Group. Mark is an interesting guy, with some great stories from his days in the music industry (let’s just say the guy has connections). But he’s a Tassie writer of thriller novels now – and we’re happy to have him.
About Mark:
Mark Mannock was born in Melbourne, Australia. He has had an extensive career in the music industry including supporting, recording with or writing for Tina Turner, Joni Mitchell, The Eurythmics, Irene Cara and David Hudson. His recorded work with Lia Scallon has twice been long-listed for Grammy Awards.
As a composer/songwriter Mark’s music has been used across the world in countless television and theatre contexts, including the ‘American Survivor’ TV series and ‘Sleuth’ playwright Anthony Shaffer’s later productions.
Mark has also been active in music education across Australia promoting student’s ownership and voice in their own educational music journeys. He has won several awards for his endeavours in this area.
Mark is presently writing the successful ‘Nicholas Sharp’ thriller series about a disillusioned former US sniper whose past plagues him as he makes his way in the contemporary music industry. Sharp is a man whose insatiable curiosity and embedded moral compass lead him to places he ought not go. The series is currently read in over 50 countries.
Mark lives in Kettering, Tasmania with his family. His travels around the globe act as inspirations for his writing.
Here’s my interview with Mark:
1. Why do you write – and why did you decide to write a book?
I was once asked why I write songs. The answer is the same for books. If there’s something inside you that needs to come out, let it out. I reckon the process is something between therapy and vomiting. I guess like many creatives, I also grow very restless when not producing something. At the end of the day, we’re probably all slightly insane and need the therapy.
2. What genres do you enjoy reading?
I’m a thriller guy. I need to be totally engaged by a real but slightly escapist plot with strong characters. If find that I relate to the characters, I’ll care what happens to them. I also love a strong but flawed hero. That being said, I love a good biography.
3. How long did it take you to write your first book from first word to publish?If you’ve written or published more than one book, how long does it take you now to write and publish a book?
Gosh, I reckon around two years. I sent the first chapter I wrote to a friend. His only response was “Chapter 2 please…” That’s what got me going around seven books ago.
I usually take around six weeks to do the first draft. Then there would be another four weeks to edit. Then I wait for feedback from my critical friends and have the proof reading done. It helps when your wife is a fantastic proofreader.
4. What’s the most challenging part of being an author for you?
Starting the next book and not letting the business/promotional side dominate my time.
5. What do you love the most about being an author?
Telling stories, creating interesting characters and perhaps giving a couple of unique perspectives along the way. I enjoy the fact that all my lead characters have their own takes on life, even if sometimes they take a while to let me in.
6. If you could give an aspiring author one piece of advice, what would it be?
Just do it, don’t mess about at the edges. Most importantly, divide yourself into two people. Create first, edit later on. Don’t start picking your writing apart in mid-creative flow. If you do that you end up how you started…with a blank page.
7. What is the best line you feel you’ve written in your published work(s)?
Let me think about that. In a song it was ‘the port that harbors pride sees so few ships sail.’ It was a break up song of course. I think my favourite line in a book may have been when one character was talking to another he reflectively mentioned ‘Regret can be a stalker you know’.
8. What’s the shortest time you’ve ever written a story?
Four weeks if I’m consumed.
9. What was the hardest lesson you learned in the writing process, and what did you take from that?
For my first couple of books my editor was God. He was hard on me but turned me into the writer I am today (for better or worse). Also… get rid of words you don’t need, they just get in the way. To me the key to story telling is to keep telling the story.
10. What is the best book you’ve found on the writing process?
To be honest, I’ve never read one. Once a maverick… But I really enjoy the camaraderie amongst the group of people that follow Mark Dawson’s work on self-publishing.
11. Are you self-published, traditionally, or hybrid-published, and why did you take that publishing route? Would you choose that route for your next book?
Self-published. After years of working with record companies I love the creative independence that comes with being an indie. Same for the next books as far as I can see.
12. What drew you to the subject of your latest novel?
I’ve just begun writing a new series where the hero is right on that line between vigilante and serial killer. I love the intricacies of the human mind.
13. What did your discovery path look like, in choosing the genre to write in?
I choose the genre I like to read. That way I enjoy reading the story as I write it. Plus, I understand it. I’ve always believed that authors and songwriters loose their way when they try to be something they’re not.
14. What does your typical day look like, when you are working on a book?
Exercise while watching a seventies cop show (currently working my way through the complete Rockford Files). Then write all day with a couple of hours of business/promotion at the end. End the day with a martini.
15. Do you put yourself into your characters, or are they completely fictional?
I have no control over that. Part me, part others I’ve known, part made up. Just to be clear, I’m not really a serial killer. My main character’s offsider in the Nicholas Sharp series is based on a mate who we lost a few years ago. It’s my way of grieving. Fortunately, his wife loves the books.
16. How much of your own life, and your own experiences, have affected your storylines?
Heaps. The viewpoint, the anger/frustration with the world, the travel, the relationships and of course the humour. My first series, the Nicholas Sharp books, are set within the music industry that I’ve spent a great deal of my life being part of.
17. What’s the most interesting book you’ve read in the last year? Or at least, one that kept you thinking about long after?
I’ve re-read some of the early Bond books. They come across now as extremely misogynistic. I reckon Fleming, for all his wonder, had some issues. It’s a good reminder to us all to stay on the front foot.
18. Have you ever read a book outside of your usual genre – and found it surprising? Why?
Sometimes I get stuck into books about politicians and political life. I wonder why I’m reading them and then I realise I’m really just researching my next villain.
19. Do you write what you want to write, or what you feel is sellable?
Fortunately for me I think they may be one and the same.
20. Would you still be an author if you knew no one would read your books?
Refer to answer number one. If it’s inside, it’s got to come out.
20. What’s the best book you feel you’ve written?
They’re all my babies, but I particularly like Counterpoint (Nicholas Sharp Book 5). I like the way it flashes between character viewpoints as the tension mounts. I decided to write it like a TV show. I was a little worried, but the reaction has been great. I’m also really enjoying writing my latest book, ‘Die as You Kill’. It’s the first in the Lachlan Byrn series and is taking me down dark roads that are fascinating. I certainly would be inviting Lachlan Byrn round for dinner, but if I was in trouble….?
When I walked my solo Camino in 2018, I was told there was an Australian albergue, almost six hundred kilometres from Saint Jean Pied de Port, and I had to stay there.
When I finally walked in the door at Casa Susi’s, it was like coming home, or staying with an old friend. My stays at Casa Susi are some of my favourite memories from BOTH my Camino wanders – and I’ll be staying there on my next Camino Wander. And the next. And the next. Yes, I’m a fan and if you’ve read CAMINO WANDERING, you may find Casa Susi sounds familiar as there is a whole chapter dedicated to The Lovelies stay at Casa Susi‘s.
But Casa Susi is more than just an albergue -there’s the woman who created the magic that is Casa Susi: Sue Swain. While the dream was hers, Sue now co-runs the albergue with her partner, Fermin (aka pilgrim #30 who walked in the door, right after she opened, and when he returned, he never left).
I’m so excited to share this interview with you. I asked Sue if she’d be interested in doing this interview with me and I thought, maybe she’d respond around December, as it’s currently peak season on the Camino. So I’m touched and honoured that Sue found the time to answer these questions for us.
After this interview, if you want to know more about Sue and her story – and you want to, trust me – you’ll just have to visit Sue and Fermin at Casa Susi yourself!
When did you walk the Camino and which route did you walk?
I walked my first camino May/June 2012, then followed closely by September/October 2012 – both the Camino Francés.
Did you walk solo or with someone else? Were they a friend or a relation?
Solo.
When you initially started, what did you imagine the walk to be like?
I had no idea about the Camino. I read one book which, in all honesty, didn’t paint a great picture of the Camino. The book was called ‘The Year We Seized the Day’. Though, thinking about it now, the naivety was a wonderful way to discover the Camino.
Halfway through, what was your primary feeling about your walk?
My primary thought was ‘when can I leave’?
If you came across another Pilgrim what were the first two questions, you would ask them?
I’d ask their name and which country did they come from.
Sue’s favourite Camino photo – on the Norte
Did you do any training beforehand? If so, what did you do?
One 15 km hike in my local neighbourhood with tins in my backpack 😂
What was the one thing you packed that you were glad to have with you?
Ear plugs!
What was the one thing you packed that you could have left behind?
Actually I was incredibly happy with my packing considering I’d never backpacked before. One thing I did do was remove all the labels from my clothing. It’s surprising how much they weigh!
Would you walk a Camino again? If yes which route, would you walk and why? If no, why not?
I’ve walked over eleven Camino’s between 2012-2015!
(Tara’s note: Sue now lives on the Camino Francés.)
First arrival in Santiago 2012 with pilgrims I met on day 0 in Saint Jean Pied de Port!
Which was your favourite albergue and why?
Albergue Verde in Hospital de Orbigo. The atmosphere of the place and communal dinner was fantastic. It’s a great albergue to relax and meet pilgrims. They also offer yoga.
11. If you’re open to sharing, what did you learn about yourself?
I learnt I was a better person on the Camino. I liked the non-judgement of people walking the Camino. I never cared about what they did in the real world. Just who they were that day. Most pilgrims were stripping away the layers.
When you began you walk, what was your motivation to walk the Camino? Physical, spiritual, religious, or other? (This is a question that is asked when getting your Compostela in Santiago.) What about at the end of your walk?
It was definitely a spiritual walk for me, and it became more apparent the further I walked.
13. Did you continue walking to Finisterre or Muxia?
I walked to Muxia then Finisterra.
Walking from Lordes in France 2014 with my friend from our first camino
If you gave one piece of advice to someone thinking of walking the Camino, what would that be?
Don’t put it off. Stop making excuses and take the first step. The first step is always the hardest.
Do you feel the Camino changed you?
Yes, it definitely changed me, and I feel the best version of me left the Camino.
Outside Casa Susi with pilgrims (and her neighbour).
How do you feel you brought the Camino home with you?
Imagine we are all dressed the same so you don’t preconceive what people have or don’t have. Everyone has a story. We sometimes have to take time to hear it.
Do you feel your Camino was a pilgrimage, or was it was more of a long-distance walk?
I think if was a time of growth and understanding. It was a time to shed layers and to heal. If that is a pilgrimage, then yes, that’s what it was.
Do you feel the Camino is for everyone? Why or why not?
It depends what you are looking for:
If you want a long hike: Yes, but then you don’t get the same experience than if you were doing a pilgrimage.
If you want to relax with a book on your holiday: I don’t suspect it’s for you. Then again I liked the book, beach, cocktail holiday, but the Camino changed my life.
Never say never.
Tara with two of her favourite pilgrims: Susi and Lindsay Teychenne
What would you like to see more, or less (other than less toilet paper) of, on the Camino?
More hospitalero’s having walked the camino to offer guidance to new pilgrims!*
What was your favourite city on your Camino route, and why?
Leon. A city full of charm and Camino history. Easy to walk around and see tourist sites, and be a tourist for a moment before the last stage of your Camino.
If someone didn’t know what the Camino was or about, what would you tell them (in three sentences or less)?
Make your way to Saint Jean Pied de Port with a backpack and the minimum amount of ‘things’ and start following the yellow arrows.
Open your heart and mind and prepare yourself for the biggest adventure of your life.
Also to go with plenty of time!
Susi and her partner, Fermín – Winter on the Camino
Georgina is an author of fantasy and science fiction novels. Georgie and I have become good friends over the last few years. This is through a love of writing, and a desire to support our local Tasmanian Indie Author community. Georgie is a prolific author/publisher, with over twenty-eight fantasy and science fictions novels and novellas. All the amazing result of dedication and strict discipline.
About Georgina:
Georgina Makalani survives life as a servant of the public by hiding in cafes at lunch time with dragons, the occasional crazed faery, and a little bit of magic. She and her daughter live in beautiful southern Tasmania, with two crazy cats and a writing desk that overlooks the water.
Georgina is a discovery writer, which means she discovers the story as it unfolds across the pages, as a reader would discover a story as they read. She can’t explain how this works, or why it is the best way for her. It is what it is. And she loves that about writing: discovering new characters, being surprised by twists, and learning that what seemed insignificant a few chapters back actually had a reason.
She tried plotting and planning, but the characters had other ideas. She feels she’s just the typist to their story. Over the course of writing many books, she has learned to trust her process.
Many of her stories contain a sense of finding place or family, and explore relationships both good and bad, platonic and intimate.
Here’s my interview with Georgina:
1. Why do you write – and why did you decide to write a book?
The easy answer here is that I need to write. I have to write. There are so many stories inside my head that the only way I can stay sane is to write them down.
Since I was young, I have been scribbling down ideas and scenes just to get them out of my head. It wasn’t until I was in my late twenties that I thought about writing a book and I was in my thirties before I started trying to do that seriously.
2. What genres do you enjoy reading?
Over the years I have read very broadly and I think as a writer it is important to experience a range of story telling. The genres I enjoy most are fantasy and science fiction (which is what I write). I love adventure style books, where I can develop an emotional connection to the characters – my all time favourite author (who does this extremely well in both my favourite genre) is Lindsay Buroker.
3. How long did it take you to write your first book from first word to publish?If you’ve written or published more than one book, how long does it take you now to write and publish a book?
The first book I published took me seven years from first work to publish – I reworked it a lot. But it wasn’t the first book I wrote (that will never see the light of day).
Depending on a number of factors, it now takes me 4-6 months to write and publish a book.
4. What’s the most challenging part of being an author for you?
Sometimes it is the writing – as much as I love it, writing can be hard. The marketing side of being an indie author is a real challenge and one I’m working on.
5. What do you love the most about being an author?
Getting lost in a story and I love that as a reader too. As a discovery writer I don’t know what is going to happen next until it is forming on the page before me and that can be really exciting.
6. If you could give an aspiring author one piece of advice, what would it be?
Shut out all of the conflicting advice, and all the “you must do this…” or “you must be this…” if you are to be a REAL writer. Just write. Find your own voice and your own process without trying to stick to what other people say that must look like. We all write differently, we all think differently, and that is ok.
7. What is the best book you’ve found on the writing process?
It is not about quitting writing, it is about finding what works best for you as a writer, and what you need to work on to be the writer you want to be. The whole series is quite good.
8. Are you self-published, traditionally, or hybrid-published, and why did you take that publishing route? Would you choose that route for your next book?
I am self-published and I wouldn’t do it any differently. I like the control, I like being able to publish my stories the way I want to, without someone telling me there is no market for them, or that they don’t fit current reader expectations. I will continue to publish my own books.
9. What does writing process look like?
The first novel I wrote, which we won’t talk about again, was chick lit (and bad) and I was reading through it as I was editing and mumbled about how boring it was. My daughter (just a little thing at the time) was wise enough to tell me that if I wasn’t enjoying it, I didn’t have to read it. So I thought about what I did enjoy reading and started in that same instant what would become my first published novel.
Dragons. Dragons were the key.
10. What does your typical day look like, when you are working on a book?
When working on a book – I get up early and maybe fiddle with email for a little while and then get into writing or editing my current book.
If it is a work day, I do this until six am and then the usual grind starts.
If a weekend or writing day – I continue writing in 20-40 minute blocks and then break that up with some housework tasks, fresh cups of tea and playing with the cat until lunch time. I may come back to it after lunch, but usually play with other writing business things, or take the time to allow my brain to mull over where the story might be going (usually while I watch something or spend time with my daughter).
11. Do you put yourself into your characters, or are they completely fictional?
I certainly don’t deliberately put myself into characters. I feel what they are feeling, and they tend to respond as I would to certain situations, but not always.
Experiences from my life might influence some of those responses, or plot points, but I prefer to think that they are completely fictional.
12. How much of your own life, and your own experiences, have affected your storylines?
Likely more than I am conscious of, but as I said, I don’t deliberately try to put my own experiences into my stories.
13. Do you write what you want to write, or what you feel is sellable?
I write what the characters tell me to. I’ve tried pointing them in a direction, but they don’t like that. My stories might not fit exactly into categories, but the readers seem to enjoy them, and that is all I can ask.
14. Would you still be an author if you knew no one would read your books?
I would still have to write, whether I published or not.
15. What’s the best book you feel you’ve written?
My favourite book is usually the most recent. And each book is better than the one before as I learn so much from them.
The book that really sticks with me – The Caged Raven, the second in the Caged Raven series, there were some moments in the book that really surprised me, and scared me, as I wrote it and I think Meg is still one of my favourite characters.
I met Grant and his son James at the 2023 ‘Australian Friends of the Camino Conference‘ in Melbourne. It was the same day I met James and Leo. The four of them had walked together on their 2022, and it was clear strong bonds were formed between the foursome.
I love this interview with Grant. It shows how different pilgrims are. What they walk in. What they appreciate most while on the Camino. But it’s interesting how most pilgrims learn the same thing about themselves after walking the Camino de Santiago – that walking the Camino somehow brings a sense of calm to our souls. And it’s never when we reach the Cathedral in Santiago de Compostela, but once we return home.
I hope you enjoy Grant’s interview!
When did you walk the Camino and which route did you walk?
April/May 2022 – Camino Francés. Walked from Santiago to Muxia in June 2023.
Did you walk solo or with someone else? Were they a friend or a relation?
With my (then) fifteen-year-old son James (on the Camino Francés). Solo, on the Muxia walk.
When you initially started, what did you imagine the walk to be like?
Sounds terrible, but I thought our walk was going to be a lot harder. Basically we had almost no rain on the entire walk, so we got off pretty easily compared to other pilgrims. We did have to walk the Valcarlos route out of St Jean Pied de Port (SJPDP) due to the heavy snow on the Pyrenees.
As for the experience, we had no idea how far we’d get, or whether we’d even finish. We tried to live day by day as much as possible.
Halfway through, what was your primary feeling about your walk?
James and I had spent quite a bit of time walking with some Danish brothers – Mikal & Mads – and we were having a great time. The thing we missed was a home-cooked meal. They had been craving pasta carbonara, so in Sahagun I went out and got all the ingredients to make one from scratch. We stayed in the albergue that is above the old church there (Iglesia De La Trinidad) and had a great meal together. We didn’t want our Camino to end, but we were also tired from the constant walking (we hadn’t had any days off – and didn’t until Leon).
I’d say, achievement with a tinge of melancholy as we knew we had less time on the Camino as each day passed.
If you came across another Pilgrim what were the first two questions, you would ask them?
Their name and where they were from. I rarely came across the cliché of – “why are you walking a Camino?” – early in any conversation, though it did often get asked eventually. I think that’s because it’s a more personal question and the person asking has to be prepared to answer first. Also, a lot of people don’t know why whilst they’re walking. Even if they do, that reason may be a red herring, the real reason only revealing itself later.
Did you do any training beforehand? If so, what did you do?
We were meant to do Camino in 2020 and I did a lot of leg weights and core training. Then, during lockdown, I did a lot of cabernet and Netflix. I didn’t train too much for our 2022 walk because, until we were actually in Saint Jean Pied de Port, I didn’t really believe it was happening. I was sure something was going to happen and the whole journey would have to be cancelled again.
What was the one thing you packed that you were glad to have with you?
Crocs. It was great to have some super comfortable and light shoes to wear around the albergue or even going out for dinner.
What was the one thing you packed that you could have left behind?
We took two pair of long pants and three shirts. Needed only one pair and two shirts. Oh, and I packed a Moleskin journal. That lasted about three days. I was blogging daily on my phone, so it was superfluous.
Would you walk a Camino again? If yes which route, would you walk and why? If no, why not?
Yes, would love to walk the Frances, but from further up in France, maybe Vezelay. Would also consider the Via de La Plata. I’m also really keen to try something like the Pacific Crest Trail (PCT) in America, a pilgrimage of a different sort.
Which was your favourite albergue and why?
Hornillos Meeting Point. It is new and run by a sister and brother who made us all feel really welcome. There was a tiny old store across the road that sold cold beer and other supplies. We sat and played guitar, and chatted to other pilgrims in the lovely little courtyard. They made us paella and we had a communal dinner with about seven other pilgrims who we just met, and became part of our Camino family from then on.
11. If you’re open to sharing, what did you learn about yourself?
Gratitude for my family, my friends and my life. Someone commented when we were walking that the Camino is almost exclusively for the affluent given the costs and sacrifices involved. Whilst my initial reaction was, “no way!”, when I thought about it, I think they were right. That made me feel incredibly grateful for the opportunity to take my son and spend six weeks in Spain. I was thankful that my partner and family looked after things at home. In some ways a Camino is a very selfish thing to do. But it becomes an incredibly unselfish thing once you are on pilgrimage, and when you return, you have so much more to give to everyone in your life.
When you began you walk, what was your motivation to walk the Camino? Physical, spiritual, religious, or other? (This is a question that is asked when getting your Compostela in Santiago.) What about at the end of your walk?
At the start, for family. I wanted to have an adventure with James before he was too committed to his last years at school, and before he was old enough to not want to spend six weeks in Spain with his dad. He did have a choice; I let him decide if the Camino was something he wanted to do or not.
At the end, I think it was a very personal journey. I’m an atheist, which probably begs the question – why go on a Christian pilgrimage? But I see the history of the Iberian peninsula as much longer than the Christian era, being a whole mix of different influences. The route of the Camino, which has been rerouted endless times for new roads, buildings and the like, roughly follows a pagan route and before that, who knows? Perhaps it was a migration route of some sort. It was also strategic in securing northern Spain. Actually, maybe I did it for historical reasons as well.
13. Did you continue walking to Finisterre or Muxia?
No, though I recently returned from walking from Santiago to Muxia. We walked with James and Leo Sage and the two fifteen-year-old’s told us in no uncertain terms that Santiago was it for walking. In their words, “walking is overrated.”
The Santiago to Muxia leg was beautiful and I highly recommend it if you have the time. Even though Santiago was very busy, this route was relatively quiet. The albergue experience was lovely too. They were small and relatively quiet. We were given pilgrim dinners at each of the albergues that I stayed at which added to a sense of community. When I reached Muxia, I stood on the rocks with two other pilgrims facing the Atlantic Ocean, just yelling at the top of our lungs with joy. One of them turned to me and said they couldn’t remember feeling this happy. It was a great experience.
If you gave one piece of advice to someone thinking of walking the Camino, what would that be?
If you are thinking of it, then you’ll do it, so why not lock in some dates and tell family & friends — or maybe even book a flight right now.
As for practical advice:
Walk in the season that suits you. We walked in Spring and loved the cool. I don’t think I could walk in summer due to the heat and the number of pilgrims.
Get your pack weight down by leaving stuff behind that you don’t need. If you do find you need something, you’ll be able to buy it in Spain.
Wear trail runners. Bushwalking boots are made for carrying heavy loads, not the nimble pack you will have on the Camino.
Do a couple of twenty-five kilometre walks before you go with your gear you’ll walk with, sometimes called a shakedown hike. This is to iron out any potential issues you may have with your gear, but also to help with strength and fitness.
Work out a system for your feet. Some like toe socks (Injinji is the most available brand), some like to put powder of their feet or hiker’s wool, others put Vaseline on their feet. I used toe socks and put Vaseline on my heels and never had any trouble across Spain. James and I walked in Hoka trail runners. He did the laces up once for the whole trip :-} and wore Macpac wool socks. He never had any blisters.
Do you feel the Camino changed you?
Yes. On our return James was far more independent. I joked that he would leave Australia a boy and return a man and to some extent that came true.
For me, I was a lot calmer and accepting of life. A week after our return my mother was rushed to hospital. She ended up spending about 10 weeks there and eventually passed away in September. I was lucky to be there when she did pass away. My mum was such an open and generous person. I think reading our daily blog from the Camino kept her going and out of hospital until our return. My father (who has pancreatic cancer) and my sister relied on me to organise everything after mum passed and they live about five hours from my home. I felt that I could deal with all of that stress with some equanimity.
Not long after my mum passed away, my twenty-year-old daughter was rushed to hospital and was eventually diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. Again, I believe that the Camino has made me resilient and calm to provide the best possible support for her.
Then just before Christmas, my eldest daughter, who was living and studying in Paris, was drugged and assaulted. Again, I was able to stay calm for her, the last thing she needed was a hysterical parent on the other side of the world. The generosity of spirit of the Camino stays with you. We were able to offer her support and get her home safe.
We’re all pilgrims and all have some burden to carry. A true pilgrim offers a helping hand to another in need, and I saw that many times on the Camino.
How do you feel you brought the Camino home with you?
I think about it every day. I think it does give me a sense of equanimity. I rarely feel rushed and if I do I stop and ask whether I’m rushing for me or for someone else. In either case I try to slow down. I also feel a real sense of community with fellow pilgrims and a sense that I have another home in Spain that’s waiting patiently for my return someday soon.
Do you feel your Camino was a pilgrimage, or was it was more of a long-distance walk?
Hmm, tough question. If pilgrimage is about finding out who you are and thinking deeply about your life, then I would say it was a pilgrimage for me.
I could easily see how it could be a five-hundred mile party, though as I witnessed some people doing that very thing.
Do you feel the Camino is for everyone? Why or why not?
It’s open to anyone who is open to it. I’ve talked to people about it and they are honest that it’s not something they have any desire to do. Then there are others who get that little twinkle in their eye when they talk to you about it, and you know they would love it. Let’s face it, some people hate the idea of pain and adversity being part of their annual holidays. For me, pain and adversity are opportunities to learn and to grow. I also think it’s important for your kids to see you struggle with things and watch how you deal with it.
What would you like to see more, or less (other than less toilet paper) of, on the Camino?
More fresh Spanish food instead of the frozen, pre-packaged pizzas, calamari and paella that gets served too regularly.
What was your favourite city on your Camino route, and why?
Pamplona. It has an energy about it that I loved. It’s an easy city to walk around and the little street with the pinchos bars is a great place to meet pilgrims, eat great food and drink great wine. When I walk the Frances again, I’ll stay in Pamplona for two nights. It’s hard though, because if you start in Saint Jean Pied de Port, it’s so early in your Camino and you want to keep moving.
If someone didn’t know what the Camino was or about, what would you tell them (in three sentences or less)?
Pilgrimage across Spain. Disconnect from your computer, devices, work and life. Have an adventure, embrace gratitude and to love yourself and the world.
Carolyn (Kari) Gillespie is both an author and a pilgrim, but for this endeavour, she had asked to be interviewed as an author. And what an author she is! I’ve said this to Kari myself, that reading her book PILGRIM, is like watching The Lovelies in CAMINO WANDERING come to life. I listened to PILGRIM via Audible and devoured it, taking me right back to my own Camino wander and itching me to return.
I hope you enjoy Kari’s interview. She’s an inspiration to look inward and ask yourself, “who do you want to be?”
About Carolyn (Kari):
Born and raised in Scotland, Carolyn Gillespie now lives and writes in the South of England. Winner of the Wells Festival of Literature Open Poetry Prize, she has written a collection of poems for children and is currently working on a middle grade novel. Her work has appeared in Molecule Tiny Lit Mag, The Crank, Oddity magazine, Coin Operated Press’s Poetry zine and Scotland Outdoors. Shortlisted for the Soutar and Fish prizes. Carolyn was a panellist at the Guildford new Writers Festival where she read an extract from Pilgrim. She runs creative writing workshops in schools.
Married, with three grown-up children, Carolyn (Kari) is hooked on long-distance walking. When she’s not off a trek with the Sturdy Girls she’s fighting a losing battle to gain control of her unruly garden and Bernard, her rumbunctious pup.
Here’s my interview with Carolyn:
1. Why do you write – and why did you decide to write a book?
I suppose I write to try to make sense of things, to find some sort of meaning in the jumble of thoughts and feelings that occupy my headspace and my heartspace. I wrote Pilgrim after my first Camino. I had written a daily update for friends and family while we were walking, but I knew there was more to say, more to figure out. The writing helped me process my experience. In a way, I’m still figuring that out. Nowadays I write fiction – and that’s a lot of fun!
2. What genres do you enjoy reading?
I read widely – mostly literary fiction. But within that broad category I scoot between Dystopian fiction (Moths by Jane Hennigan), Sci-Fi (Klara and the Sun by Kashuo Ishiguro), Historical Fiction (Booth by Karen Joy Fowler), Short Stories (anything by Elizabeth Strout), Contemporary Fiction (Transcendent Kingdom by Yaa Gyasi) and YA (The Eternal Return of Clara Hart by Louise Finch). I read a lot of Non-Fiction too – there are plenty of Camino books on my bookshelves!
3. How long did it take you to write your first book from first word to publish?If you’ve written or published more than one book, how long does it take you now to write and publish a book?
There were 5 years between completing the Camino and competing the book (PILGRIM). I have written three books since finishing the Camino and I’m about to embark upon a fourth. I haven’t published any other books.
4. What’s the most challenging part of being an author for you?
I was a teacher and there are lots of things I miss about that. I miss the kids and I miss the support and companionship I used to get from my colleagues. I miss laughing in the staffroom! I suppose that’s what I find hardest about being an author. There’s nobody to have a giggle with at breaktime! But on the upside, I don’t have to do break duty either!
5. What do you love the most about being an author?
I love connecting with people who have read PILGRIM. It’s the best feeling in the world when somebody tells me the book has inspired them to walk the Camino. That’s everything.
6. If you could give an aspiring author one piece of advice, what would it be?
Love the work. Love the words. Pick the best ones. Put them in the right order. Be demanding of yourself.
7. What is the best line you feel you’ve written in your published work(s)?
Oh, lord! That’s hard! ‘My stone was no bigger than a peach pit. It had slipped into my bag barely noticed but I had been struggling under the weight of it for years. Now I had a thousand years of pilgrims at my back, leading me onward on my journey. And tomorrow I would lay it down.’
8. What’s the shortest time you’ve ever written a story?
I wrote my last book in a year. I’m getting faster! I hope this next one will be done in nine months.
9. What was the hardest lesson you learned in the writing process, and what did you take from that?
Two things. Rejection is hard and things take time. I was someone who expected everything to be done in a hurry. The writing process has taught me to be patient and accepting. Sometimes.
10. What is the best book you’ve found on the writing process?
So many! I did an MfA in Creative writing a couple of years ago and I have a whole bookcase full of books on the subject. George Saunders’ A Swim in a Pond in the Rain and Elizabeth Gilbert’s Big Magic are two of my favourites.
11. Are you self-published, traditionally, or hybrid-published, and why did you take that publishing route? Would you choose that route for your next book?
Pilgrim is self-published. I am lucky enough to have a wonderful agent who was instrumental in the editing stages of Pilgrim. She encouraged me to go deeper and to be braver. I don’t think I would have got there without her. She was the one who suggested I self-publish. My subsequent books are for children and I would prefer to pursue a traditional route for them as the self-publishing market for children is a mystery to me! I need help!
12. What drew you to the subject of your latest novel?
Daydreaming.
13. What does writing process look like?
I spend ages sitting with my characters, imagining scenes, considering themes. This happens long before a plot emerges. After a while I begin to jot down scenes, make notes and then, when I know what the book is going to be ‘about,’ I start researching the topic. I read other books in the genre and make notes from non-fiction books.
Once I have compiled a huge mountain of information I start thinking about plot. I sketch out a plan and begin to write. The first draft is usually pretty rough – I try hard not to get in my own way too much.
On a good morning I will write, say, 1500 – 2000 words, and in the afternoon, I’ll do a cursory edit. Most of the fine-tuning happens in the second draft. I love both phases – the total immersion of the first draft and the intellectual challenge of the second.
Once I have a decent second draft, I send the MS to my agent and to my son, who is a freelance editor. After their comments are incorporated, I send it out to beta readers – typically about five or six. I consider their feedback really carefully, make the necessary adjustments and send it back to my agent for one last read through and final tweaking.
14. What does your typical day look like, when you are working on a book?
I like to write in the mornings, walk the dog, look for mushrooms (I’m obsessed!), edit in the afternoon. Keeping it simple works best for me.
15. What’s the most interesting book you’ve read in the last year? Or at least, one that kept you thinking about long after?
18. Have you ever read a book outside of your usual genre – and found it surprising? Why?
I loved Touching the Void, by Joe Simpson. It was the first work of narrative non-fiction that I had ever read and it blew me away. It really encouraged me to read outside of my own field of interest.
19. Would you still be an author if you knew no one would read your books?
Jerry and his wife, Sharon Boggon, were two of my Camino angels when I walked the Camino Frances, in 2018.
I’m so excited to share my interview with Jerry Everard, who is seriously one of my favourite people. Jerry is a philosopher, historian, writer, musician, and photographer. Oh, and he also has two PhDs. One of them, he humorously claims to have obtained “by accident.”
I almost kept walking past when I heard him say this the first time we met (too intimidating!). I’m glad I didn’t, because Jerry is a true gentleman, and prone to dishing out the occasional “Dad” joke when you least expect it.
Walking the Camino with Jerry and Sharon was one of the best experiences of my life. We laughed across Spain until our faces hurt.
So, grab your favourite beverage and read about Jerry’s captivating Camino experience and insights. I also encourage you to check out his website, The Fog Watch, for more of Jerry’s profound insights on travel from a philosopher/historian perspective.
1. When did you walk the Camino and which route did you walk?
2016, 2018, 2022. I walked the Camino Frances with my wife, Sharon.
2. When you initially started, what did you imagine the walk to be like?
I imagined it to be a long walk in Europe with interesting historical buildings, and a chance to reflect on what my retirement from formal work should look like
3. Halfway through, what was your primary feeling about your walk?
My main feeling was that the Camino is more an amazing community — the world should be more like this.
4. If you came across another Pilgrim what were the first two questions, you would ask them?
How are you? What have you learned so far on the Camino?
5. Did you do any training beforehand? If so, what did you do?
Yes, we walked about 5-10km per day in a nature reserve, for about three months, wearing in our boots/shoes, and the last six weeks with loaded packs.
6. What was the one thing you packed that you were glad to have with you?
My camera — Canon 80D with one zoom lens (Tamron 18-270). It was my 1.5kg Camino burden, but so worth it!
7. What was the one thing you packed that you could have left behind?
On my first Camino I took a solar rechargeable power pack. It was heavy, and I discovered that in full sun it would take about a week to fully recharge. I binned it (interpretation: threw it in the garbage).
8. Would you walk a Camino again? If yes which route, would you walk and why? If no, why not?
Yes definitely — in a heartbeat! Frances route because of the community of pilgrims. The other routes seem to be quite solitary. And yes you can have time to yourself on the Frances, but you can always share a coffee with other pilgrims when you want to.
9. Which was your favourite albergue and why?
Casa Susi in Trabadelo. The hosts Sue and Fermin are warm and generous. She is a fantastic cook for the communal meal (all fresh from their garden) and there are no bunk beds. Oh yes, and the shower rooms are spacious!
10. If you’re open to sharing, what did you learn about yourself?
Sharon and I have been together over 40 years. In many ways we each discovered the person we married re-emerge. I had become quite jaded and cynical at work, and the Camino restored a lot of my faith in humanity. I learned to trust people more, to ask for help (something I still struggle with); and that after 60 I can still do something a bit epic.
11. When you began you walk, what was your motivation to walk the Camino? What about at the end of your walk?
When I began my first Camino, I saw it as an opportunity to take some time out for reflection, that didn’t involve waiting for death in my garden. So perhaps I had a sense that this would be something of a spiritual journey. By the end, I had become pilgrim. The Camino shapes you, reminds you what your better self might look like. By the end it was most definitely a spiritual journey — a journey of the mind for which the vehicle is your feet.
12. Did you continue walking to Finisterre or Muxia?
No, we took the bus. But we will walk it at some point.
13. If you gave one piece of advice to someone thinking of walking the Camino, what would that be?
Train for the Camino — find hills and stairs, but train and train well. It’s not an American through-hike, but it is rugged in parts, and if you have led a sedentary lifestyle you definitely need to train — including training the mind. Above all: you can do this!
14. Do you feel the Camino changed you?
Yes. I became less cynical, more open to others, and I rediscovered my creative self.
15. How do you feel you brought the Camino home with you?
I tried hard and consciously to bring the pilgrim in me back home. That means small things, like treating shop assistants like fellow human beings, using their name, asking if I’ve pronounced it correctly. More broadly, being more open to showing kindness and compassion for others.
16. Do you feel your Camino was a pilgrimage, or was it was more of a long-distance walk?
Definitely a pilgrimage. You don’t have to go seeking great answers, or be religious. The Camino shapes you if you’re open to it, to become your best self, and an opportunity to model that best self before you return to your daily routine.
17. Do you feel the Camino is for everyone? Why or why not?
No, it’s not for everyone. It’s a pilgrimage, not a wilderness hike or a race — if you want those things then there are plenty of good challenging hikes. What makes the Camino different is the inward journey, the community and the sense of purpose.
18. What would you like to see more, or less (other than less toilet paper) of, on the Camino?
More kindness and courtesy (eg bells on bikes), more accommodation, more power-points.
19. What was your favourite city (town or village) on your Camino route, and why?
I think it would be a toss-up between Astorga, Logroño, or perhaps O’ Cebreiro.
20. If someone didn’t know what the Camino was or about, what would you tell them (in three sentences or less)?
The Camino is a purposeful/intentional journey along a medieval pilgrimage route. It is an inner journey undertaken at a human pace. It is a time out of time that can give you an opportunity to remodel your best self before you immerse back into the maelstrom of life.
You can find Jerry’s reflections and insights into the Camino on his website, The Fog Watch. Jerry is a writer, traveller and photographer with an insatiable curiosity about the world. He’s been known to play celtic music on a hardanger fiddle, write blog posts on an ironing board, and turn pens from wood. His first book was about the internet, and he’s had short fiction published in virtual and real worlds, along with the occasional feature news article.
I am excited to interview the incredible Kate Solly. Kate’s novel, TUESDAY EVENINGS WITH THE COPETON CRAFT RESISTANCE will resonate with a lot of readers, me included. Kate is delightful, effervescent and an Australian author to watch out for.
About Kate:
Kate Solly writes funny, feel-good fiction with an eye for the profound within the domestic. Her first novel, Tuesday Evenings with the Copeton Craft Resistance, is a hilarious and heartwarming read about community, bigotry and the power of grassroots craftivism. Kate is married and has six children. When she’s not writing, she spends her days saying ‘put that stick down’ in a firm voice and divesting her kitchen table of its cemented weetbix glaze.
Here’s my interview with Kate:
1. Why do you write – and why did you decide to write a book?
I write as an enjoyable creative outlet, a means of self-expression. I decided to write a book when I realised that if I rolled all of my blog posts and Facebook rants together, there would be enough writing for several books!
2. What genres do you enjoy reading?
I like to read widely. I love chatty commercial fiction, but also enjoy crime and literary fiction.
3. How long did it take you to write your first book from first word to publish?
Around six years.
4. What’s the most challenging part of being an author for you?
The days when the words aren’t flowing, or when I just can’t get started.
5. What do you love the most about being an author?
So many things! It’s a real treat to meet other authors. They are such a warm and friendly bunch.
6. If you could give an aspiring author one piece of advice, what would it be?
Don’t waste your time seeking permission to be a writer. If you write, you are a writer. You don’t need someone else to tell you it’s okay.
7. What is the best line you feel you’ve written in your published work(s)?
Oh, I don’t know!! The first one that springs to mind contains a spoiler, so I won’t use that. I like ‘Claire always looked like she was about to drop something important.’ I feel it describes both Claire and Meredith (who thinks it) really well.
8. What’s the shortest time you’ve ever written a story?
I don’t do ‘short’! But one time I wrote a really successful article in one day. I was angry at Michael Leunig, so it all just poured out of me.
9. What was the hardest lesson you learned in the writing process, and what did you take from that?
You need to respect your reader, but it’s also impossible to please everybody. In the end, you have to follow your own principles and cope with the fact that some people won’t like what you’re doing.
10. What is the best book you’ve found on the writing process?
11. Are you self-published, traditionally, or hybrid-published, and why did you take that publishing route? Would you choose that route for your next book?
Traditionally published with Affirm Press. I chose this route because I would find it hard to manage the whole business on my own. I would choose this route again, because I am in love with my publisher, Kelly, and want to have her book babies.
12. What drew you to the subject of your latest novel?
I love crochet and I love groups of people from different backgrounds coming together in a group. When I saw a news article about people protesting a mosque, I wanted to see them get their comeuppance in a brilliantly creative way.
13. What did your discovery path look like, in choosing the genre to write in?
I wanted to write the book I most wanted to read.
14. What does your typical day look like, when you are working on a book?
I get up early, go for a run and then go to a cafe to write. Then I get home, get the kids off to school, come home, do some housework and write some more. I write until school pick-up, then it’s the usual after-school routine. Sometimes I get a bit of work done after dinner, but my brain is usually fried by then!
15. Do you put yourself into your characters, or are they completely fictional?
They are ALL me! Even the bad guys!
16. How much of your own life, and your own experiences, have affected your storylines?
A great deal. I’ve written scenes into my novel that have been lifted directly from my life.
17. What’s the most interesting book you’ve read in the last year? Or at least, one that kept you thinking about long after?
19. Do you write what you want to write, or what you feel is sellable?
I think of what I write as a bit of a conversation. If it’s just me writing what I want to write, then it’s like I’m droning on about my special subject and the other person is bored out of their brain. If it’s just me trying to write what is sellable, then it’s like I’m desperately trying to say all of the cool and impressive things – and the other person is bored out of their brain!
I think there is a middle way. I write about the things I find interesting, but I’m always conscious that I’m doing it in a way that the reader finds entertaining. I listen to my readers, I ask for their feedback, I try to think what the experience would be like for them reading the book. It’s more like an engaging conversation that way.
20. Would you still be an author if you knew no one would read your books?
Yes, but I don’t think I would be very happy. I think having even just one person read what you’ve written is part of the process.
I was intrigued by Leo’s experience on the Camino as a teen, and asked him if he was interested in doing an interview with me. Leo and another teen had walked with their dads, and they had met while walking the Camino Frances. (More on the other father/son duo later). Leo was keen, but I knew I had to get his dad’s okay first.
In the time between asking the boys, and asking the dad’s permission, I had a better idea. I wanted the dad’s input too, of what it was like to walk with his son’s on this journey.
Little did I know that I would get such a comprehensive and yet vulnerable interview with James, Leo’s dad. It’s a story of love for his son, but also an understanding what James needs himself too.
I’m happy to say, James and I have become friends through this process. Yes, the Camino is still doing its magic, even at home, bringing pilgrims together.
So grab your beverage of choice as this interview is a long one. But I PROMISE you, it’s worth the read.
When did you walk the Camino and which route did you walk?
I walked the Camino Francés in 2019 and 2022. On both occasions I departed from Saint Jean Pied De Port in early Spring.
Did you walk solo or with someone else? Were they a friend or a relation?
In both instances I walked with my son Leo. He was 12 years old in 2019 and 15 in 2022.
When you initially started, what did you imagine the walk to be like?
For my first Camino I tried to keep my imaginings for the journey ahead to a minimum, trying to avoid preconceptions and preserve the experiences for when they happened. I think I was applying a ‘no expectations, no disappointments’ mindset.
My strongest ‘preconceptions’ for that Camino were dominated by the physical aspects of the journey – images of walking on a trail across long open spaces as often seen in blogs and movies. These are what had attracted me so strongly to the Camino.
Imagining the weeks of physical exertions and challenges of this adventure fuelled my sense of elation as we walked up the hill out of SJPDP to start.
I intentionally avoided learning the locations of well-known landmarks – Alto del Perdón, Puente La Reina, the wine fountain, and others, so that they became a wonderful surprise when each revealed themselves as we travelled.
Being a bit of an introvert, it was not my natural tendency to think too much about the human relationship aspects of the Camino beforehand.
On that first Camino I was travelling with my 12-year-old son Leo who was suffering from significant anxiety at the time. This was the primary reason for our journey.
Consequently, as a parent, I could not avoid reflecting that I would be trying to perceive how he was imagining and perceiving our journey, with special consideration of things that would make him feel anxious or unsafe.
Leo was there to experience walking the Camino, complete with its challenges for sure, but I imagined and expected that I would be keeping an eye open for anything that was overly negative for him.
In retrospect it created a bit of a mental cocktail for me, creating thoughts of an adventure that might be equal parts exhilaration and anxiety management simultaneously.
My imaginings for my second Camino were shaped by the knowledge and experiences of my first journey, but there was still plenty to think about. Having already completed one Camino in no way lessened the sense of excitement associated with the unknowns that lay ahead.
My son Leo was a very different travelling companion in 2022. Fifteen, hairier, effectively as strong as an adult and just starting to spread his own wings.
He was also happier, wiser, and mentally more resilient. Since our first Camino he had become confident and independent, often taking off for weekends with his mates with nothing more than a daypack, credit card and phone.
He had also developed a great sense of humour, which is a great enabler when travelling.
I was imagining that Leo would be a more independent travelling companion, spending periods of time ‘doing his own thing’ with people he would meet. As a consequence I was contemplating some time being by myself on the journey which I imagined would make the experience different.
Leo and I were familiar with the pathway we would be walking. However, we also knew that our journey experiences would Probably be shaped more by the people we would meet, our physical and mental states at different places, and the weather. Whilst the pathway would be familiar, everything else would be different.
We understood that our Camino number two experience would be completely different to our first journey, and my imagination was focussed on wondering what might prove to be the most influential things.
We walked our second Camino shortly after the trail opened up after the Covid-19 pandemic, with masks, vaccines and Covid passports very much in the front of our minds. High on our list of wonderings was whether the albergues, towns, and locals we had befriended had been affected, and likewise, whether would this change the trail culture.
Halfway through, what was your primary feeling about your walk?
By the middle of both walks I was totally absorbed by my journey on the Camino. It had become my whole World. I was living very much in the moment and time on the trail had made me oblivious to any thoughts of my everyday life back home.
Similarly, there was still so much of the journey ahead that any thoughts of it ending, and by progression, of the journey home, were also completely absent.
I had an all-prevailing sense of needing to keep moving forward. In part this was probably driven by an acute awareness of where I was relative to my ‘Camino Family’ and a desire to remain in proximity to them.
There was also a simple raw desire to keep moving, as though I could feel every step helping me. My mantra became in movement there is peace – especially on the Meseta.
By the halfway point on both Caminos, I was afflicted by ailments that were threatening my journey. I wasn’t quite thinking that I wouldn’t make it to Santiago, but certainly each was making me very focussed upon each step I was taking and bringing my awareness down to the immediate moment.
If you came across another Pilgrim what were the first two questions, you would ask them?
My first question was invariably ‘Have you seen my son?’ My son Leo was usually out of sight chatting to someone behind or ahead of me in the trail, so I liked to check in every now and then.
In other circumstances, the two questions that tended to be first out were “where are you from?” and “why are you walking the Camino?”
The first question was probably my version of an icebreaker, a way to open a conversation and gauge whether the person was open to talking. It also gave me a potential topic that was not too invasive if it was apparent that the person only wanted a little chit chat.
The second question I guess is at the core of why many people come to the Camino and provides an opportunity for each pilgrim to collect and articulate their thoughts at that time and place. Probably as beneficial and interesting for the person answering as for the person asking.
I certainly found my response to this question evolved as I travelled further along the trail and I had reflected upon it more and more.
Did you do any training beforehand? If so, what did you do?
I prepared quite a bit before travelling on both my journeys. For me the lead-up time was full of positive emotions and something I count within my overall Camino experiences.
The moment of deciding that I was going to Spain shifted my thinking from what-if, to anticipation and triggered my preparations.
Preparing for my journeys both mentally and physically was motivated and empowered by the growing excitement and the approaching departure date.
For my first Camino I continued to read accounts written by pilgrims, and found myself returning to the ones I enjoyed to fuel my anticipation, and to others that I remembered having useful information of a practical nature.
Initially I started to make notes of places of interest, such as albergues that got positive mentions in other’s accounts. However, I soon stopped this as I felt these pre-conceived items might work against the simplicity and spontaneity of the journey I wanted.
In terms of personal fitness, I am a cyclist and I felt my basic cardio and leg strength were sort of OK, but I was aware that hiking uses different muscles. For about 4 months before leaving, I began more specific hiking exercises.
I joined a social hike group, doing one or two walks with them each week, the social aspect keeping me motivated. On a couple of occasions, we challenged ourselves to 50km day hike as short-term objectives to work towards.
About two months out from departure I started walking most days along local trails with a backpack that I gradually made heavier. By the time I departed I was walking around 5-6kms each night with a 10kg pack.
I used these walks to break-in and test my footwear as well.
I accidentally walked a lot of the life out of my hiking boots before my first trip without realising it. This later revealed itself very painfully, mid-way across the Meseta.
For my second Camino I was vacillating between taking boots and trail runners. I eventually bought a pair of each and used my daily walks to put each through their paces. The cost of an extra pair of footwear was a small price to pay to ensure that my feet would remain healthy enough to see me to the end of this special trip.
I trialled my Camino ‘après-hiking’ footwear options on my evening walks as well, to find something I could also hike in should my feet need a break from my primary walking footwear.
Finally, I also targeted some weight loss so that my body would not need to deal with an increased load when carrying a pack. I lost slightly more than the weight of my fully packed backpack on each occasion.
I did not do any focussed mental or spiritual training as part of my preparations.
What was the one thing you packed that you were glad to have with you?
My absolute favourite first Camino item was probably my waterproof shell jacket – I wore that thing nearly every day at some point – protection against the wind, against the early morning cold, and against the rain.
Light, versatile, and quite fashionable, I also wore it on wash days when everything we owned went into a washing machine for a ‘proper wash’ in between all the hand washes, and we wore our wet weather gear as we waited. You can always spot the pilgrims in town on a wash day.
On my second Camino it was a joy to have the correct footwear for my needs. My first Camino footwear choices had been disastrous.
In terms of a discretionary item, I loved my Zpacks FUPA (Front Utility Pouch Accessory) – interesting name but effectively a waterproof utility bag, like a bum bag, that connected to the sternum strap of my backpack. It carried my wallet, passport, guidebook, notebook, pen and telephone, all instantly accessible.
It had a shoulder strap so it stayed with me when I took off my pack, and I hung it in the shower when showering. Having these items protected from the rain and snow, and in such a convenient location, and having their weight carried by my backpack harness rather than on my shoulder made a surprisingly positive difference.
What was the one thing you packed that you could have left behind?
On my first Camino, the list of things that were either bad choices, or were not needed is long. We posted a box of odds and ends home from Burgos and left more in donation boxes in albergues.
Mindful that it may help someone reading this, one ‘fear’ that took me down a rabbit hole and resulted in a few unnecessary items was what to wear in towns and in albergues when not hiking (neat town clothes, sleepwear etc) This was fuelled in part by uncertainty about how often I would be able to wash and dry my clothes.
Curse my mother and her warnings about always having clean underwear ‘just in case’!
I found that ‘trail wear’ is an integral part of Camino town scenery and being a bit grubby is just fine, although perhaps not to the completely stinky PCT hiker standard. Opportunities to wash and dry clothes proved plentiful.
Likewise, dormitory wear proved to be a non-event, limited only by one’s own sense of modesty. Hiking underwear and T shirts being very much the norm.
Some of my ‘spare’ clothing could definitely have been left at home.
On my second Camino, with the benefit of experience and applying lessons learnt, my ‘leave at home’ items came down to just my head torch and a second pair of shorts.
I generally do not walk in hours of darkness requiring a torch. I am quite comfortable walking through the heat of the day, and, as I value my sleep, I purposely do not arise early and disturb the sleep of others.
Consequently, I found that I did not use my head torch on either Camino and that my phone torch was ample for any short illumination tasks. Having said that, in the three years between our journeys technology had halved the weight of head torches so the weight penalty is now small – less than a protein bar.
I took two pairs of shorts and one pair of lightweight long pants, the second shorts being in effect spares (I still hadn’t quite kicked my fears). I found that post-Covid there were far more washing machines and dryers available on the Camino so spare shorts were not really needed.
Leaving those suckers behind will save me a whole 187 grams next time!
Would you walk a Camino again? If yes which route, would you walk and why? If no, why not?
I plan to walk the Camino again, probably multiple times, and at least once by myself.
My final choice of which route will come down to whether I am seeking a journey of solitude and reflection, or one where I can interact and have the company of other pilgrims.
In the case of the former it would be Via de la Plata, a route that is not travelled by many and where the chances of bumping into another pilgrim are few.
The call of the Via de la Plata is strong for me. I like that it travels through parts of Spain with very different terrain, history, and culture than the Camino Frances route.
The Via de la Plata route has plentiful extents of Meseta. I spent some time growing up in South Australia’s hot arid lands and I find the open and exposed Meseta particularly familiar and peaceful.
I also like that it is longer route in both distance and duration.
In the case of wanting a sociable journey, I would gladly walk the Camino Francés again, although perhaps starting in France to increase the duration.
Having walked it twice, I know that the experience of each journey is indeed very different, even on the same route.
In both instances I would finish by spending time in Finisterre to contemplate again.
Same road. Different years.
Which was your favourite albergue and why?
I would probably say Le Refuge Orisson, where we stayed on the first night of our first Camino, was our favourite.
The experience of its evening meal provided a very positive start for our journey. All pilgrims staying at the albergue share a communal meal and each is invited to stand and say a few words about themselves. This shared experience and being able to put a name and some information to the faces we would encounter over the next few days laid the foundation for our wonderful Camino Family.
Reflecting when we arrived in Santiago on that journey, we had initially met well over half of our ‘Camino Family’ on that first night at Le Refuge Orisson.
If you’re open to sharing, what did you learn about yourself?
Often, I accept inferred parameters or ‘rules’ as limits without challenging them. On my second Camino I ‘broke away’ from the stage itinerary of the popular guidebooks and found it very uplifting.
I have filled my everyday world with many things that trigger negative feelings and reactions in me, to the detriment of my personal wellbeing.
Walking long days on the trail is a positive and rewarding activity for me, both mentally and physically. I am capable of far more than I assumed.
I gain far more personal strength, and have far more positive experiences, when I allow myself to be vulnerable and open to others rather than being closed.
I am reluctant to take risks that take me outside of my comfort zone and this self-limits the potential positive experiences I have. In particular, accepting offers of help or kindness from others is challenging for me.
I discovered that I carry with me thoughts and feeling of things I thought long-buried. For, example, I found myself recalling many ‘cringe’ moments – times in my past where I feel I should have acted differently. After Camino number one I found myself contacting people from my past, sometimes decades in my past, and apologising for my behaviour. In many instances the people concerned had no idea what I was talking about and it just became an enjoyable way to have a catch up. Deep down I found myself being more content for having reconciled these within myself.
Turns out that I am not averse to getting a tattoo.
Losing and forgetting things out of my pack is my super power.
When you began you walk, what was your motivation to walk the Camino?
My first Camino was travelled with my young son Leo, who was suffering terribly from the effects of anxiety. We had enrolled him in a new school that year. The journey to the Camino, made as early in the season as we could manage, was an attempt to provide a circuit breaker between a dark past and the hope of a bright future.
School as a place had become associated with pain for him so getting away from all schools for a while was important.
Leo’s particular anxiety was founded in a fear of the World around him, and whether he was safe. He would always check-in with those around him to see if there was anything near him that might cause him harm. Unfamiliar places were naturally a source of heightened concern.
Travelling the Camino was an act of faith. We hoped that what we had heard about it as a positive and supportive environment, was in fact true.
My wife Jennie and I also hoped that Leo would walk the Camino, which would challenge him every day with its lack of certainty about where we would be going and staying, and travelling through a strange new land, and have a positive experience. We hoped that he would learn that the World can be a safe place, and that challenge, uncertainty and new experiences can be a good thing.
I knew that if we completed the Camino, it would also be a significant personal achievement that could demonstrate to him that he was capable of extraordinary things, and that challenges that may appear initially insurmountable, can be overcome.
I also motivated Leo by agreeing that we would get matching tattoos in Santiago if we made it.
Thus, my first Camino motivation was to help my son find personal wellbeing.
Coincidentally, my motivation for walking my second Camino was to consciously seek healing and personal wellbeing also, this time for myself. In late 2021 I had been diagnosed with depression and mental fatigue.
To achieve this, I hoped to draw upon many things the Camino offered:
A long physical journey, having time for contemplation and thought,
Being exposed to a new country, its people, and its culture as a source of different perspectives
Interacting with other people undertaking a similar journey but with different experiences, and
Taking time in both natural and created places of contemplation to simply pause and benefit from moments of silent mental rest.
What about at the end of your walk?
In Santiago my response to THE question was ‘spiritual’ on both occasions, motivated in part by my desire to obtain Compostela, and in part because my reasons could not be neatly pigeonholed.
I found that my motivations for my journeys were unchanged by the time I completed them.
I am glad to say that the first Camino did indeed mark a turning point for Leo’s wellbeing and happiness that was already becoming evident even before we departed Spain.
As for the tattoos? In 2019 it turned out that under Galician law Leo was too young to get one. Happily, Nero the tattoo artist in Santiago, cushioned the disappointment by rendering the tattoo artwork on Leo’s leg as a gift. In 2022 Leo was old enough and we finally did get our matching scallop shell tattoos. Apparently, we needed another one for completing our 2022 journey.
Did you continue walking to Finisterre or Muxia?
We did not walk to Finisterre, but travelled and spent several days there at the completion of our second Camino. I found it to be a very positive and meaningful place to rest and contemplate a completed Camino. A sort of calm Middle Earth between the physical journey and the return to the other world, especially after the crowds and noise of Santiago.
Nothing reinforces that you have reached the end of the physical journey more than having the trail stop at the end of a headland with a wide expanse of ocean in front of you.
If you gave one piece of advice to someone thinking of walking the Camino, what would that be?
I suspect my instinctive first answer to this question will be the same as most.
In the interests of variety, I provide some other fundamental truths I have learned about the Camino:
Plan to depart from Sarria on a Monday if you enjoy contact sports.
The minimum drinking age on the Camino is 18 years, UNLESS you are holding a credit card and order a round for all the pilgrims in the bar.
There is a unique smell in the Galician countryside that no one tells newbies about, and which experienced pilgrims choose to forget.
Gummy Bears are legal tender when bartering with other pilgrims.
Trail shoes filled with snow sludge are not as bad as you might think.
Camino distances are +/- 10%.
The minimum age to get a Camino tattoo is 16 years, except in Leon where it is 14 years, as my son discovered.
If you can feel gravel through the soles of your footwear, try something else.
Listen to and read advice about travelling the Camino, but make up your own mind (but remember trail runners are better than boots!)
Do you feel the Camino changed you?
The Camino has changed me.
With hindsight I realise that my first Camino was very much ‘Leo’s Camino’ and that my focus upon his journey meant I was pre-occupied and not fully open to what the Camino was offering me.
I still came home with a sense of having experienced a place where I could be open and true to self, without the various filters and screens that I often put in place to manage others’ perception of me in my everyday world.
I effectively dusted off my true self and was happy and comfortable with what I re-found after many years of neglect.
I now realise that I did not make a conscious effort to capture, preserve and nurture what I learned on my first Camino. As such, the experience was very positive, but any personal changes were not enduring.
My second Camino had a much more marked and enduring effect upon me. As mentioned, I was motivated by a desire to be open to things that would help me heal and find an enduring sense of wellbeing from depression.
In more plain speak, I wanted a break in a positive place that would help me regain strength, and provide the mental space to identify those things that had led to my depression.
Accordingly, I approached my second journey trying to be more conscious of my thoughts and experiences as I travelled, and more careful to capture what I learned.
To me the Camino provides pilgrims with everything needed to sustain them – food, water, shelter, all with the minimum required effort on their part.
This enables focus upon those things that have been overlooked, and to experience new places and people in a way that is meaningful and enduring.
In this regard I have come to consider the Camino as a haven, or perhaps a womb. A place of sustenance, nurture, and growth.
A recent psychology study has found that humans need around 3 weeks to break a habit. If true, I can certainly see why five weeks walking the Camino provides the opportunity for long-term change.
The Camino gave me the time and the supportive environment to be able to expunge the mental ‘noise’ of my normal life, and to identify those things that had caused me to become unwell.
Ultimately, my second Camino did help me identify and make some valuable changes that have benefitted my everyday life, which I will expand upon later.
Time on the Camino also showed me the importance of making the time in life to do something like the Camino every now and then, in effect to step off the mad bus of life for a few weeks and make sure you are on the right route, before continuing onwards.
My travels on the Camino have changed my also allowed me to discover a love of this type of walking, travelling light, freely and thoughtfully.
How do you feel you brought the Camino home with you?
There are several things about me and my life that have changed since experiencing the Camino.
I am very conscious that the Camino has taught me the value of removing negative things, doing positive things, and doing these meaningfully.
I now value my time and am more discerning about what I try and fit into my life both mentally and physically, removing those things which are not positive.
Since my first Camino I have probably given away half of my belongings so that there is less physical clutter and I can easily find what I need. After all, I only needed 2.5 changes of clothes when living on the Camino.
Since my second Camino, I have virtually ceased following media news, tuning in to commercial television and radio, and using social media. I realised none of these was making a positive contribution to my life, and they were consuming time and emotional energy.
I now practice good ‘psychological hygiene’, carefully discerning between what things I engage in, and what I do not. I realise in retrospect, that I was always quick to have an opinion and engage in topics, even in relation to things that had little bearing upon the important things in my life. I cannot say I was one of the perpetually outraged, but I was certainly impatient and negative about many things that were frankly irrelevant.
Now my wife now describes me as being far more ‘Zen.’
Except when driving in traffic maybe.
Now I find I have time to do the things I value ‘properly’ and meaningfully, rather than just quickly.
I have just finished hand-writing letters to each of my Camino Family in their native languages. For me, a hand written letter is the ‘proper’ way to communicate with close friends and family. I can’t even remember the previous time I took the time required to consider, compose and write a letter (no PC editing) and then take it to the post office to post. Maybe twenty years ago(?). Having now done this I feel far more satisfied that if I had dashed off an email.
I must admit though, translating and writing seven pages of Danish almost broke my will to carry on.
Despite no longer doing many things that I had instinctively jammed into my life before I walked the Camino, I have noticed that the World has not suddenly ended, reaffirming that my involvement in everything around me was perhaps not essential.
I find also that I am now much more willing to be open and engage positively with both friends and strangers. It seems to be due to a unique blend of not being so concerned about what other people think about me, and enjoying the benefits of being positive with others. I now spend far less energy putting up filters and shaping my outward persona to try and influence how others perceive me. Now, just being nice is far easier.
It took a little while to get the balance right. Arriving in Madrid on the way home and unleashing the Camino-utopia-induced smile of friendship at everyone I passed seemed to raise looks of concern from many recipients. Had they encountered the village idiot perhaps? I’ve now dialled it back to an appropriate level and am enjoying the pleasant reactions of those I interact with.
There is a sense of personal strength and contentment that comes from just being me.
Certainly, my mental state is better, although it is still a work in progress.
It is just over a year since my last Camino, and yet I am still conscious of applying what I brought home with me from Spain, and changing because of it.
Do you feel your Camino was a pilgrimage, or was it was more of a long-distance walk?
Some of the elements of the Camino that make it attractive for religious, spiritual, or physical experiences factored within my reasons for walking. However, I feel each of these motivations are singularly too narrow in meaning, or perhaps too prescriptive to be used to describe my journeys.
I feel the two Caminos I have travelled can both be best described as ‘quests for wellbeing.’
Do you feel the Camino is for everyone? Why or why not?
Hard to answer as a generic question. My initial reaction is that the personalised nature of the Camino experience makes it suitable for anyone.
There are practical limitations, such as personal mobility constraints that might limit some, although there are plenty of examples of this being overcome if the desire is there.
It may not be for everyone at any time, but I sense that there will be a time in everyone’s life where the Camino would be a positive experience.
What would you like to see more, or less (other than less toilet paper) of, on the Camino?
There is nothing I would desperately like change about the Camino. Sure, there were many challenges I encountered, and these may have been lessened by more accommodation or amenities, but these did not stop me from completing the Camino.
Needing to use the ‘Camino toilet’ between towns, or having to walk a very long day to find a bed, or asking others for help because we had encountered a problem, I found hard at the time, but ultimately the solutions found to overcome the challenges tended to enhance my journey.
I would go further to say that the ‘imperfections’ of the Camino are the things that indeed makes it ultimately a positive experience for me.
If I really put my mind to it a couple of suggestions would be:
Remove the 100km prescribed minimum distance for Compostela eligibility and provide pilgrims with more diversity of starting place options.
Improve the wayfinding signage for the alternative route out of Leon, I have no strong desire to see Villadangos del Páramo again!
On toilet paper (since you asked)
Toilet paper itself is not something that has imposed itself upon my conscious Camino experience any more than other trailside litter. However, as a topic, it certainly has.
As a pilgrim, I aim to be a respectful guest in other people’s countries and to do no harm as I pass. I have not escaped the need to use toilet paper between towns but have ultimately carried it and deposited it in waste bins.
I have noted that toilet paper and toileting seem to result in some heated ‘un-Camino-like’ exchanges between pilgrims trying to impose their opinions on each other.
While toileting dos and don’ts are prescribed and communicated by authorities for hiking in many wild natural environments, in all my reading and walking I have not yet come across the ‘official’ rules for the Camino.
The few times I have witnessed toilet paper and exposed waste being left trailside it has been by a local going for a short walk between towns. It seemed to be done unself-consciously and as a normal occurrence.
On each occasion I elected not to test my welcome by informing the locals of my foreigner’s approach to the topic – I would have done it in English of course.
Maybe it would be good to have the trail toileting requirements explicitly both defined by the local authorities and communicated.
Good for the local environment and good for the harmony of the Camino community.
What was your favourite city on your Camino route, and why?
This is a tough one as there are several very strong candidates for me – Pamplona, Burgos and Astorga. Each very pretty and welcoming, but ultimately it is the context of our visits that is the deciding factor. It is Astorga.
On both Caminos I have arrived in Astorga with low morale, and on one occasion with feet in dreadful condition. On both occasions Astorga and its people lifted my spirits and helped my journey when I needed it the most.
It is a small city that is easy and quick to move around on foot – which is a blessing for mangled feet. It also means that it is easy to sit at a café and see most of the pilgrims walking through town, which is great for connecting with friends.
It is home to the best hiking shop we found anywhere on the Camino – run by Swiss hiker and mountaineer Rolf and his family who have lived there for 20 years. There was nothing I required, including a new set of hiking footwear suitable for immediate use without breaking in, that it did not have.
We even managed to find a traditional watch maker to repair an old linked watch band, something we could not get repaired in Leon. Predictably in a Camino kind of way, the watchmaker would not take payment. We gave him a kangaroo pin off our backpack as he graciously declined the Vegemite sachets we initially offered.
I have no doubt that Astorga’s location at the end of the Meseta and at the beginning of the mountains, with their promise of natural pathways and trees also created a strong positive emotional response for me.
Just a word of advice for those wishing to have the optimum Astorga experience and considering overnight accommodation in the Plaza de Espana – the Town Hall clock clangs loudly 24 hours a day.
If someone didn’t know what the Camino was or about, what would you tell them (in three sentences or less)?
I am excited to interview the amazing Australian author, Emma Grey. I loved her novel, THE LAST LOVE NOTE, and know you will too!
About Emma:
Emma is a novelist, feature writer, photographer, professional speaker and accountability coach.
She has been writing fiction since she first fell for Anne of Green Gables at fourteen and is the author of the YA novels UNREQUITED, TILLY MAQUIRE AND THE ROYAL WEDDING MESS, the non-fiction title, I DON’T HAVE TIME (co-authored with Audrey Thomas), and the parenting memoir WIT’S END BEFORE BREAKFAST! CONFESSIONS OF A WORKING MUM.
Along with her school friend, dual ARIA-winning composer, Sally Whitwell, Emma co-wrote two musicals, DEADPAN ANTI-FAN and FAIRYTALE DERAIL, based on her teen novels.
She wrote her first adult novel, THE LAST LOVE NOTE, in the wake of her husband’s death. It’s a fictional tribute to their love, an attempt to articulate the magnitude of her loss and a life-affirming commitment to hope.
Emma lives just outside Canberra, Australia, where her world centres on her two adult daughters, young son, loved step-children and step-grandchildren, writing, photography and endlessly chasing the Aurora Australis.
Here’s my interview with Emma:
1. Why do you write – and why did you decide to write a book?
I write to make sense of the world – to work out what I think, to process ‘life’ and (very much) to escape. I love carrying around a fantasy world inside my head wherever I go – driving, grocery shopping, gardening – and then putting that world on paper and sharing it with other people.
2. What genres do you enjoy reading?
I love contemporary adult and YA fiction, particularly romantic comedy. In recent years, the darker my own life has become, the lighter my reading/TV/movie interests.
3. How long did it take you to write your first book from first word to publish?
My first book began as a series of emails to friends, which I later edited into a memoir called WITS’ END BEFORE BREAKFAST! CONFESSIONS OF A WORKING MUM. It’s hard to measure how long that one took, as I wasn’t consciously writing a book when I started. My most recent book, THE LAST LOVE NOTE took three and a half years from first word to publication.
4. If you’ve written or published more than one book, how long does it take you now to write and publish a book?
I’m currently writing my sixth book, and hoping to get into a rhythm of writing and publishing a book each year. With full-time work and single parenthood it’s a challenge, but writing is also my way of escaping the demands of life, so perhaps it’s essential!
5. What’s the most challenging part of being an author for you?
It’s returning to the first draft of a new book after editing and polishing a published work, and being comfortable with the flimsiness of your writing. You can get a sense that you’ve ‘forgotten how to write’. In reality, you’re just comparing the wrong draft of the two books…
It’s also a mindset shift breaking out of the trackies (sweatpants) and Uggs and showing up at book events, writers festivals and in radio or TV interviews in ‘promo’ mode. Part of the appeal of writing is the introversion and solitude… it’s a real 180-degree shift.
6. What do you love the most about being an author?
Definitely the moments readers get in touch and tell you what your book meant to them, how it changed the way they think, or helped them articulate some aspect of their experience or feel less alone. And the moments when they talk about your characters as if they’re real people (which of course they are).
That feeling was supercharged when I saw actors on stage playing the roles I’d imagined in the musical I co-wrote with Sally Whitwell, based on one of my teen novels, UNREQUITED. It was such a buzz seeing my characters speaking and singing lines I’d dreamt up! The young actor who played the lead, Lydia Milos, was more ‘Kat’ than Kat in the book! She was remarkable in how she brought her to life.
7. If you could give an aspiring author one piece of advice, what would it be?
Just tell yourself the story at first. Write the book you want to read. Don’t worry too much about what happens after you’ve finished (that’s a whole other ball game). Relish this private time when the story is just yours.
8. What is the best line you feel you’ve written in your published work(s)?
It’s not a particularly fancy or clever sentence, but when the husband in THE LAST LOVE NOTE is losing his memory to early onset Alzheimer’s, he sticks Post-it notes all over the house to remind him what things are. One day his wife, Kate, comes home and finds a note in reference to their 3-year-old son.
It reads, “The boy’s name is Charlie.”
People have said that line broke them. (Tara’s note: It did for me!)
9. What’s the shortest time you’ve ever written a story?
I wrote the first draft of THE LAST LOVE NOTE in five weeks (about 65,000 words). It poured out of me, probably because it was influenced by my real-life experience of the loss of my husband. It was my therapy, in a way.
That book ended up 90,000 words. After 11 drafts, and the ditching of 30,000 words and re-writing of 40,000… So that first draft was really just the bare bones.
10. What was the hardest lesson you learned in the writing process, and what did you take from that?
I’ve become really good at handling rejection. It still hurts, but I bounce back a lot faster than I used to. I ‘collect’ rejections these days, on a chart on my kitchen wall. The more things I fling into the universe, the more likely it is that something may stick. Having multiple projects on the go can help disperse the risk or disappointment.
11. What is the best book you’ve found on the writing process?
12. Are you self-published, traditionally, or hybrid-published, and why did you take that publishing route? Would you choose that route for your next book?
I have five traditionally published books, spanning memoir, non-fiction and fiction. I self-published the first edition of one of my teen novels, because I wrote it for my daughter who hated reading, but loved Harry Styles. She was fourteen, and I wanted to get it into her hands the fastest way possible and show her reading could be fun. That book was eventually picked up by HarperCollins in a two-book deal.
I see the potential financial appeal of self-publishing, but I’ve found having to project-manage the entire process from cover design and editing through to publishing, marketing, publicity and distribution to be a very heavy load in an already busy life. I have enormous respect for authors who choose that path, as I learnt that it takes considerable extra commitment and organisation.
Thankfully, my experience of traditional publishing has been that I still have a lot of influence over the aspects that matter to me (eg. input on cover design, auditioning the narrators for audio books) but I can let the team take care of all the aspects that aren’t my specialty (which is everything except writing and social media).
13. What drew you to the subject of your latest novel?
It’s a novel about a midlife widow falling in love again. The grief storyline is unfortunately drawn from my own life, after my husband died in 2016. Writing it was cathartic and healing, though challenging. The romantic comedy storyline, where she falls in love again was an imagined escape for me.
14. What did your discovery path look like, in choosing the genre to write in? (i.e. If you chose to write chick-lit / feel good fiction, why did you choose that genre? If you chose hero-fantasy, why?)
I knew I’d write a book about grief, but could have taken it in several directions – self-help, memoir … I chose fiction, which meant I could pour my genuine emotions into a story that was not exactly my own. Life is full of light and shade, and I wanted to write something that wasn’t all sad. I chose to include romance and comedy as well as the deeper aspects of the story – I wanted to write something that was ultimately hopeful and uplifting. It’s an attempt to capture the magnitude of my loss, but also my commitment to hope.
15. What does your typical day look like, when you are working on a book?
I don’t yet have the luxury of writing full-time, so writing tends to be squeezed around my other work (copywriting, freelance writing and accountability coaching). I’ll often leave the laptop on my bedside table overnight and smash out an hour before I get out of bed for the morning family routine. I might grab another 30 minutes at lunch time, then write in the evenings (sometimes until 2am) and on weekends. I love going to cafes to write sometimes, often with writer friends. There’s something inspiring about being surrounded by people. Usually, though, I’m on the couch in my PJs. No wonder my back is sore!
There’s also usually promotional work going on, whether it’s keeping up with social media, being interviewed for radio or podcasts, engaging with readers online, speaking at events, library talks or festivals – or writing guest blogs or responding to interviews like this.
It’s important to have some ways to unwind. For me, that’s photography and hanging out with family and friends. One of my hobbies is chasing the Aurora Australis, so some nights my son and I are out stargazing into the early hours, which makes the next day’s writing a bit more challenging!
16. Do you put yourself into your characters, or are they completely fictional?
There’s a lot of me in most of my main characters, definitely. Usually the flaws, and the chaotic stories. THE LAST LOVE NOTE features a scene in which she discovers a genuine military grenade in her house – that was unfortunately entirely based on real life! Most of the more ridiculous situations tend to be true to life. 😊
17. How much of your own life, and your own experiences, have affected your storylines?
This book was heavily inspired by reality (except for the ‘new love’ storyline, which is ‘aspirational’ at this point). I also love to take innocuous little everyday anecdotes and use them in stories – it’s easier than making something up! Write what you know!
My teen novels feature a boy band, and this came directly from my then teenage daughters’ galloping obsession with One Direction at the time. It wasn’t hard to imagine…
18. What’s the most interesting book you’ve read in the last year? Or at least, one that kept you thinking about long after?
DAUGHTERS OF EVE by Nina Campbell. It’s a fascinating feminist revenge thriller about female vigilantes rising up against domestic violence. It should be a TV series!
19. Have you ever read a book outside of your usual genre – and found it surprising? Why?
This is how I felt when I read some YA vampire fiction. I’d never really read fantasy, and had no interest in vampires, but I wanted to see what all the fuss was about. Of course I found it a little bit un-put-downable, to my surprise!
20. Do you write what you want to write, or what you feel is sellable?
Definitely what I want to write (and read). My heart needs to be in it, even if nobody else ever reads it, or I won’t stay the distance.
21. Would you still be an author if you knew no one would read your books?Yes, definitely. I’ll tell myself stories for the rest of my life, the way I have done since I was a little girl. It’s an escape and a coping mechanism. It’s like breathing.
22. What’s the best book you feel you’ve written?
THE LAST LOVE NOTE feels like my ‘magnum opus’. Coming out of such personal experience, I feel I put more of ‘me’ into that book than any other. And it’s more than a book to me – it’s my last love note to my husband.
